Have you ever had a co-worker, friend (you thought was close), family member, stranger, or fellow church goer say that you were the problem? It was all your fault that there was contention within a group of people? And that you are the bad influence on everyone around?
I never thought I would. OH, I DID!
What happened? What did you do?
Did you avoid that person/people forever?
Did you keep your kids from playing together?
How much did your situation alter your life?
How did it impact you emotionally?
I seriously need your advice on this one.